If another person makes you angry, whose anger is it? Theirs? Give it back. Yours? Why are you being so unprofitably cruel to yourself?
If externals control of your mood, make sure you live in a completely (not partially) controlled environment or you'll suffer. To do that, you need a great deal of money and power. You also need a willingness to initiate physical violence and an ability to get away with it, every time.
Or, don't let the bastards grind you down.
@zudlig @onan My 1 still-active destructive addiction is to pissy-fumes clouding my brain, mainly while safely entombed in my car. Luv2bitch--a cheap but corrosive thrill. I need to accept that I can't change their addictions to aggressive tailgating & lane-zigzagging. Usually I remember deep calming breaths after only one or three hollered terms of abuse--that's progress. At least zudlig's aggression developed courage & provided some exercise... Aggressive love? I'm gonna codger-tate on that...
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